Some of my friends just broke up with their partner recently. The major culprit of them walking on their own path is because they are not physically together. So called long distant relationship.
Is it physically together is that important in a relationship? Does physically together is a guarantee that the relationship will not have prob? Is it both of them dating with each other everyday means they are deeply in love?
So many husband and wife are sleeping on the same bed every night for more than 10 or 20 years, some of them living under the same roof for half of their life, still, divorce, affairs, argument...
Ain't them physically attach enough?
The soul is not there, the love is not there means it is not there.
I know...when you are weak, you wish that your loved one can be there by your side to share your sorrow. When you are happy, you wish that he or she is the first one who know the great news.
However, even he/she can't share the joy with you, the pain or sorrow with you at the first moment, is that reason valid enough to leave the one you love the most?
He or she is your love. Someone you choose that you are willing to spend the rest of your life with. I always believe it is not easy for two strangers to fall in love together, to walk the same path together. He/she is someone that you are willing to tell him/her that you love her. It is easy to break up but it is never easy to get back together once there is a scar in the relationship.
Although we are too young to talk about death, but every couple, no matter how sweet they are now, nobody can be physically together forever. One day, one of them will leave the world first. Then the partner will be living in this world...alone.
Can God of Death wash away our love even he/she left us forever? Can time faded our missing to him/her?
Even death cannot separate two lover apart
ps: this is a sculpture from Gustav Vigeland at Vigelandsparken, Oslo. One of my favourite.
7 comments:
picture's a bit creepy, but i so agree with you. cheers. :)
very well dear, 30 yrs experience talk- need a lot of sacrifices from both parties,tolerance, mutual understanding n true love, which is the main factor to unite 2 souls.only true love will bond two parties even closer when faced obstacles in life.true love can penetrate any problems.true love got no distance,no time limit.untie + uncle=30 yrs love++++......
CL, one of your best post. very meaningful, particularly knowing your circumstance. love know no boundary...but relationship needs its mutual sacrifice and patience. :) uncle know it da best ;)
ganbatte my dear!!
jim,
is it creepy? hehe...if you din mention creepy, i will not realise as well...er...a bit creepy...
uncle,
=)
kam,
mutual sacrifice and patience...
cy,
you too!! ganbatte
bo ka,damn geng.i duno since when my sis so geng.can come out with such full of feeling d blog.
i strongly agree wat u said sis.hope u & nic wil love each other forever and sweet sweet all d times.so tat can bring me go eat holiao, holiao and holiao.
I believe myself already in the status from beginning...it is really a bad feeling when u need him to be by your side so much!But I know it is worth while to wait to get together with a person u rili love and want to spend the rest of your life.
We are no longer taking puppy love. Play around with lover number 1 to bla bla bla...
I like the sculpture as well.. meaningful!
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